Dip into the Sugar Bowl

Always Sunny in a Rich Man’s World

The luxury gym in my area is hiring receptionists. I’ve been waiting for this opening for so long. Complimentary gym membership, worth over 5k!

But the strip clubs are also hiring and that would give me a workout too (and I’d love to try it). I also want to experience being a pro domme and it should cover my student loans.

So many options, so little time. If school was out, there would be enough time to do two jobs. The gym won’t pay as much as stripping or being a domme would, of course, but it’s a luxurious work environment. Working as a domme would be fiscally responsible and ease financial woes. I would be perfect for it too so I think I just need to be bold and do it. I will apply as soon as I get home.

By the way, the headline is a reference to Abba’s song “Money Money Money,” which might be one of the grooviest tracks on earth. Wonder if there are any Abba fans out there.

First Things First

All these people favorite my profile. In the circumstance that I like their profile, I am then forced to message them because they never take the initiative to message me. One guy I messaged never replied back. But I wonder then, why even bother favoriting my profile if you’re not even going to move forward with me? Like, what’s the point in that?

Take a shot of liquid courage, swallow your happy pills, do whatever to be bold enough to actually message me. It’s so bizarre.

Anonymous asked: I would be VERY VERY wary of any ProDomme role that involves submitting to a male Dom. If you want to work as a ProDomme research local dungeons and apply there. While some Dommes allow more sexual play many do not provide sex, oral sex or even handjobs.

Finally! Tumblr becomes useful. Can you elaborate on your first statement? Let me know if you don’t want me to post your reply.

Should I contact the agency & ask what submitting to a dom entails? I feel because of legal concerns they might not really inform me. The website does claim no “sexual gratification” as part of their services. Thanks for responding!

Anonymous asked: Hi! You seem really approachable so I hope you don't mind if I ask away. I'm interested in being an SB. I like being social based on what I feel people are seeking and love a good conversation. But I lack experience: being a v and never having a bf. I know this seems contradictory but I'm open to this life as an experience, possibly on how I should approach relationships in general. But the end result is of course unpredictable. What would you honestly advise? Thank you -R

I welcome all questions. :) However, I’m not the right person to really advise you on this; look to the more experienced SBs for guidance (though I’ve noticed they post that “follow your dreams” generic b.s. too). But I do have some thoughts for you.

If anything, your inexperience will make you more appealing to potentials. Market it. It shouldn’t hinder you at all. Potential SDs will think you’re just this sweet little thing they can show the world to. There is no contradiction in what you’re seeking. Being sexually active is not a prerequisite for enjoying male companionship and good conversations. The end result of these arrangements is usually the same. It ends. You both move on to someone new. But you’ll both be richer in experiences.

Try it out. Should you dislike it, don’t continue. Don’t look at it as how you should see relationships in “general,” since arrangements are so fundamentally different from ordinary relationships. Adding finances to the mix changes things and doesn’t allow for deep feelings.

See your experience as an adventure that also gets your bills paid. Keep yourself from getting entangled with wife issues and emotions, but still have lighthearted fun. All you’ve got to lose is your time.

Be free and have fun! And don’t forget to start a blog so we can all follow your journey.

To Those Who Know: ?

There is an ad for a domme position, all training provided, with an outcall agency that I am very interested in. It would be perfect for me and I feel confident about the agency with one exception. To put it bluntly, I am comfortable with doing anything that doesn’t involve penetration of my lower body orifices. I understand that BDSM is about the experience more so than the explicitly sexual component, but I don’t want to naively apply for the job without knowing all it entails.

If the employment is described as outcall domme services, should I expect to be involved in the above? I would be working with a male dom and expected to “submit” to him, if it makes a difference.

Can some sex workers/dommes please let know what to expect in regards to this ad?

I’m on an international news program since I was interviewed by a presenter and camera crew today in class. Stumbled over my words since I had to do it in another language, but I got my point across and they thought I was funny.

Another outrageous and cool event in my life. Form a line folks so I can sign some autographs (hah).

Sick and Twisted

I’ve remade my profile but made the idiotic mistake of keeping one of my previous pictures.

This guy again.

Huge error. The message in my inbox said “Hey, it’s been a while. How have you been?” It’s been more than a while; it’s been months. How does this guy still remember? There are creeps and obsessive stalkers out there. People who are psychologically sick and seize upon the websites that make their twisted goals easier for them. I’m sure this guy is not safe to be around women and probably has restraining orders.

Literally chills down my spine when I think of what could have happened if I had lost my mind and met him. I would probably be cut into pieces at the edge of a highway somewhere. It’s not healthy to repeatedly obsess over and try to contact a stranger you’ve never met. Thank goodness he doesn’t know what my face looks like.

No matter how slick the rhetoric, or charming the demeanor, never abandon your intuition.

Just had teeth whitening, so I’m looking sparkly and perfect. Only issue is that there’s two days left for the Starbucks happy hour and I need to stay away from staining foods for 48 hours. Dilemma!

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